Miss Proxy - The Origin

Miss Proxy began as a way of noticing what most people sense but rarely name.

For a long time, I found myself slightly outside of things. Close enough to understand people deeply, far enough to see the patterns they moved inside without realizing it.

What others experienced as confusion, I experienced as repetition. What others explained away, I noticed returning.

Over time, it became clear that this was a different perspective.

Miss Proxy exists to give that perspective a form.

Not to diagnose or persuade, but to observe carefully, and speak plainly about what repeats — in relationships, technology, power systems, and emotional life.
This work lives where analysis meets empathy. Where clarity doesn’t require hardness. And where insight is allowed to remain feminine, precise, and unapologetic.

If you’ve often felt perceptive but unsure why or capable yet quietly out of sync, you’re likely in the right place.

Welcome.

What you’ll find here

Essays, tools, and reflections on emotional intelligence, relationships, AI, and the systems shaping how we relate to each other and to ourselves.

Always with the same intention: to make what’s happening easier to see.