Stories & Insights

“You’re Overreacting!” How We Help Narcissists Win

We’d rather call the victims “dramatic” than admit that some people hurt others on purpose.

Why Relationships With Avoidant Partners Hurt So Much

How avoidant attachment, mixed signals, and intermittent reinforcement rewire your nervous system Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash Maybe you know the feeling of everything seemingly going just right...

If Social Media Platforms Were People

Imagine a family gathering where every member represents the personality of a popular digital platform Photo by krakenimages on Unsplash It’s a holiday dinner, and the family is gathered together.

Alt...

I Was Exhausted All The Time. Until I Started Using AI In Unexpected Ways

Productivity hacks about how AI can shield you from drama, mental fatigue, and emotional overload.

So I Finally Hit 100 Followers

Just in time to end the year feeling a little less invisible.

Stop Blaming AI For Amplifying Who You Already Are

Most people fear AI not because of the tech but because of what it reveals about themselves Photo by Daryan Shamkhali on Unsplash AI development seems to be polarizing the whole society.

Some people a...

I Let ChatGPT Predict My Breakup. Here’s What Actually Happened

Avoidant man, tiny argument, and AI that thinks it knows everything

Emotional Fitness: The Hidden Skill That Decides Whether Relationships Survive

A gentle guide to understanding why some people stay, and why others shut down What is emotional capacity?

There are skills we learn throughout life… or don’t. One of the most important ones is emotio...

The Gender Bias Test That Most Men Still Fail

What a classic doctor riddle teaches us about gender bias and emotional labor It’s actually a psychological test.

It goes like this: A father and a son are in a car accident. The father dies on the sp...

Three Attempts, One AI, and a Deleted Website: My Experiment with Spec Coding

An honest look at how structure, chaos, a human and an AI collided to build my website… three times.

Screenshot of my new website If you’ve spent any time in the dev community lately, you’ve probably...